If only...

I have often heard grandparents say they wish they had skipped parenthood and gone straight to the grandkids, and I must agree with them save on the adoption front.  We should have adopted a second time before we adopted a first time; having done all the gruesome interviews, background checks, biographies, psychological tests... already and only needing to update things since our last attempt has made this time around much much easier.  And now we wait...